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7月26日

Still working on #2

Well, book #1 went on paper pretty fast, but #2 is coming a little slower.    Women's issues can be so complex!!  But I am slogging along with it.  New ideas all the time.  In fact, I have dreams filled with the characters and their dilemmas.  Just wish I could remember them all when I am fully awake!
 
There are also a couple of short stories in the works.  Maybe other novels?
 
I am hoping to let women all over know that their problems are not new, they are not alone, they are not usually to blame, and that there is always hope, regardless of how they choose to solve them.  Some solutions come with dire consequences, though, and women must use good sense and avail themselves of the avenues that have been hard won by those who went before.  Many resources exist today that were unheard of decades ago.
 
Many women are still 2nd class citizens in society's eyes, but that is changing, slowly evolving through the efforts of many other women.   We are gaining a new respect and the authorities are more willing to listen to women who are being abused than ever before.
 
These books have romance, but are not intended to be purely romance novels.  Hopefully, readers will find a good story line and excitement in the pages they turn, and possibly gain some insights along the way.
 
Mother's Journals, parts 1, 2 and 3 is now available on Amazon.com
and searchable by author name.
 
7月10日

Abuse--Domestic Violence

     Domestic Violence is a very real and troubling problem.  We usually think of a husband beating his wife when using this term.  This is not entirely true, however; sometimes the wife is the abuser.  Domestic violence can be any adult in the household against any other adult in the household.  It is basically the term used for adults against adults,  but sometimes is used when a teenager lashes out physically at a parent or parents. 
      In the case of minors, it is sometimes handled differently by different jurisdictions; and of course the severity of the incident and age of the child involved plays a big part in how it is dealt with.  In this situation, if it is severe enough to be considered an adult crime, the so called child may well find themselves in adult trouble.
      Sometimes children who have charge over elderly parents run out of patience, and they become violent.  Occasionally it is the elderly parent who becomes violent. Violence against minors in the household is also domestic violence, as well as abuse.
      Anything that is done to cause physical pain to another in the household must be considered violence.  Unless, of course, a child has earned a much desrved spanking.  And even then, a spanking can become a beating unless the parent has adequate control and doesn't do it in anger.  Sometimes abuse is not violent.  sometimes it is verbal.  But that is another subject altogether.
      If you or someone your know is a victim of domestic violence or abuse, here is an excellent site for information and resources: 
http://www.ncadv.org/aboutus.php  That is the site of  the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence.